From the day your teen was born, you have been always there for their support, physically and emotionally. You taught them how to walk, talk and then later on how to ride the bicycle! As they grow up, your intervention and interference gradually became less to an extent, but still your support mattered to them. From teaching them the basic alphabetical letters to solving algebraic mathematical questions in middle school, it is time for you to move on and guide them about life. So, when do you initiate philosophical talks and discussion with your teens, and when do you think is the right time for it? It is when your teen is on the verge of entering college or universities and has completed and passed their tenure of the high school. Their true happiness is reflected in their faces, as they know that they have successfully completed an important phase of their life. Clearing and graduating high school for the teens marks the symbol for universal achievement and accomplishment. But before they leave your abode, make sure you are inculcating and indoctrinating the right moral values within them. It is time for you to intervene again, and teach them about the basic life skills which will make their life more easy and equivalent to heaven. They might not be aware of the forthcoming challenges and tough scenarios, but you have to guide them by taking help from your experience. Sit with them and contemplate. Teach the solutions to various problems and tell them how to avoid challenges. For difficulties are an essential component of life, instructing about skills will allow your teens to better tackle with them.
An introvert and a shy teen look good in high school and is considered as acceptable, but you will have to modifyyour teen by making them confident when entering college. Such type of qualities are considered as negative and might create a damaging impression of you. Make sure you communicate; talk to your friends and experienced elders. Read books and watch informative documentaries. Socialize and meet people who are spiritually and morally uplifted and acquire from them.
Your teen should be aware on how to analyze and weigh the pros and cons of a decision. Before jumping to conclusions, make sure that you are well aware of the consequences. So impart the right skills of decision formulation and implementation in your teens so they might know how to avoid a colossal damage.
Conscripting and composing
Your teen should be aware of reading and composing tasks. Make sure they are sure about resume writing and how to compile it for their own good. Read articles and books and enhance your vocabulary as well as expression through such forums.
Budgeting and planning
Teens are sometimes irresponsible and careless when it comes to handling money. But entering a new phase demands responsibility and liability. Teach them how to budget and how to deal with the finances so they know how much to spend and how much to save. This will later on, be of great help to them.